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My daughter seems to be psychic and tells me about these dark creatures that she sees. What is it she is seeing and what do I do about it?

     It is important to believe in your child. Fill your house with prayer. Give your child prayers to say.

     Have her ask for God’s love and protection.

     You can also tell your child to visualize that her room is filled with angels. Place beautiful photographs of angels around her room as well.

     Keep her room immaculate. Darkness loves dirty places.

     Play the music of Mozart since the harmonic of classical music will automatically elevate the energy of any room.

     Visualize a salty rain coming down around your daughter, your home, her bedroom, anywhere. This visualization automatically changes the energy around her and your home.

     At all costs, avoid allowing her to see violent video games or any violent images.

     Always visualize light, glorious divine light around your daughter.

My dog is very sick. How do I know when it is the right time to ‘put him down’?

     This is a conversation best had with your vet. Your vet may explain when the animal is no longer able to do any of the actions he or she used to do, sometimes when the animal is incontinent or is in so much pain that he or she can no longer eat, it may simply be time to say good bye to this loyal creature you have loved for so long.
     Once you have come to this agonizing decision, I would suggest that you follow the steps in my video :  Putting your Pet to Sleep and Do Dogs Go to Heaven?

What is karma and how does it affect me? Do you have to believe in karma to experience it?

     The concept of karma exists in all cultures. Karma is also a physics principal. What this means is that for every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction. If you do something wonderful for someone else, someone will do something wonderful or you. It may not be the same person, it may take place when you least expect it, but karma has to be returned to you, it is spiritual law.
     Karma is always operational whether you believe in it or not. We enter each mortal life to work out the karmic issues we were unable to resolve in a previous life. This is a key concept for anyone to understand who has embarked on a spiritual path.
     For a lighthearted look at this topic, read: The Lightworker’s Guide to Everyday Karma.

Before my son committed suicide, we had a huge fight and we said some hurtful things to each other. How can I ask for his forgiveness? Can I help him heal? I guess I need to know that he is ok.

     Even though your son is not physically present, you can still send him your love and compassion on a daily basis. You may not fully understand why he chose to leave this life, but you can accept his decision to leave without continuing to engender guilt on your part or anger toward him.
You can always apologize to him for things you may have said in anger, and ask him to forgive you. You can also forgive him for things that he said to you – again in anger. Human beings do become angry with one another at times and it doesn’t mean you don’t still love each other. You can also send him prayer and ask that the Light of God be there to help him find his way home.
     I would strongly recommend that you say The Crossing Over Prayer to ensure that he finds peace in the Light of God. He may or may not feel worthy of God’s love because of the overwhelming sadness he may have felt when he died. You can help him. When you do this, very probably, you will both feel significantly better. This will go a very long way toward healing your grief.
     Be sure to read The Lightworker’s Guide to Healing Grief to help you to understand suicide on a much deeper level.

          Be sure to watch my two videos on suicide: Suicide: How Can I Help My Loved One’s Soul? and Suicide: What you Weren’t Supposed to Know


What can I do to become more spiritual?

     Heal the emotional traumas in your life.

     Decide to find ways to be of service to others.

     Create a daily practice of sending love and healing to the world.

     Seek to be more compassionate and giving.

     Begin your spiritual path.

     The following videos may also be exceptionally helpful as you begin your spiritual path:
What Is Frequency, Part 1, What is Frequency, Part 2, What Is Frequency, Part 3
and What is Chi and Types of Chi

What is Spirit? Are guides, angels, and ghosts the same thing?

     Spirit is a catch-all term that many people use to describe a huge variety of metaphysical things. Literally, some people lump angels, devils, ghosts and the air itself into the category of being ‘spirit’. However, it is much better to forgo the use of this word completely, and use the correct terms that describe exactly what you mean.

     A ghost is a soul who has not crossed over into the heaven world.

     An angel is a divine being who can help mortal people in various situations. However, it is important to seek to discern if this really is a ghost or not.

     A ‘spirit guide’, may or may not be a ghost and this ‘guide’ may or may not be a beneficial being for you or your child. Discernment is critical here. Many times, the beings on the other side are not at all what or who you think they are.

     You can easily discern by simply visualizing that a ‘salty rain’ is falling on any being you think is an angel or a spirit guide. The real thing will be fine; negative beings will have to leave.

What is an aura and does everyone have one?

     Every living thing has an aura. An aura is the energetic field that surrounds us all. It also surrounds plants, and animals. Many people can see this field and the colors that are part of this field.

     Different colors mean different things and these colors change constantly. Your aura can go from a happy, glorious golden color to a firey red, in an instant if someone makes you angry or you get upset.

     In a sense, your aura is the energetic element of your immune system. The stronger this system, the healthier you will be over time.

How do I know if my child is ‘seeing things’ or is making things up? He says that there is a spirit named John and John likes to scare him.

     Does you child routinely lie to you? If your child has always been truthful with you, then he is probably seeing and or hearing a ghost.

     Also just because you cannot see, sense or hear something, does not make it untrue. Your child simply cannot help what is happening. However, you can help your child to remove this pesky soul by saying The Crossing Over Prayer. You can also ask for angels to protect our child and to take this soul to the Heaven World.

     It is tremendously helpful for your child to be able to tell you the truth about what he is feeling, seeing or sensing. It is also empowering for you as the parent to be able to help him with what is for your son, a difficult situation.

     Perhaps my video: Psychic Children: My Child Sees Ghosts may be helpful to you.
You may also find Ghost Stories from the Ghosts’ Point of View, Trilogy, Vol 1 extremely helpful in understanding the dead and their feelings.

How do I know if my relative/friend has crossed over?

     If you ‘feel’ his or her presence, if you feel them in dreams night after night, if odd things happen, then this person probably has not crossed over. You may also ‘smell’ something about them, as odd as that sounds.

     Also, if you begin to take on the symptoms of the person who died, if you feel their aches and pains, then again, this person may still be with you.

     If you go to a psychic and the psychic can see/hear/sense this soul, then again, they have definitely not crossed over.

     Once a soul has ‘crossed over’ then the psychic will not see/hear/sense this soul, you won’t feel that presence or have any out-of-character for you, type of symptoms.

     You do not need a medium to contact your loved on. You can use The Crossing Over Prayer on this website to cross over any soul you feel may still be with you or who needs help.

In your latest book, The Lightworker’s Guide to Everyday Karma, in the chapter on cars, you recommend naming your car. Can you elaborate on why you feel this is a good thing for the car?

     I named my own car Grace because I love this car! Bestowing a name is an honor. When you ‘name’ anything, be it your child, your cat, your home or your car, you are giving that named person or object the honor of your love and attention. Love keeps everything in a wonderful place. Why do you think men have ‘named’ their ships female names from the beginning of time? Naming your car or vessel isn’t that big a stretch. Think of how reverently men speak of the name of ships. They love them.

I don’t understand what metaphysics means. Can you explain it?

     Metaphysics isn’t voodoo. Metaphysics means beyond what is currently recognized as physics. Think about the mom who ‘just knows’ that her child or husband is in danger, or is ill. This mom is having a spiritual experience that goes beyond science. When the mom is found to be correct and there is no way she could have known about the issue, we marvel. This is metaphysics in action. It is the still small voice, it is the feeling in the pit of your stomach and it is the way of your heart, all rolled up in one astonishing term. Metaphysics is the word we use ultimately to define the indefinable in a world that demands concrete answers. It also lets us know that we simply do not know it all and that there is an amazing world of discovery out there to explore and understand.

     Metaphysics seems to center around the spiritual world and it is very hard to quantify any element of the spiritual world, much less wrap being spiritual in a science enclosure. Literally, how can you scientifically prove that you love someone? You can’t. How can you scientifically prove that there is life after death? You can’t. Yet literally, millions of people have had metaphysical, spiritual, and unexplainable by science, experiences that they swear happened.